Ch-ch-changes and plenty arguments to follow

After getting off the phone with many of my best friends today, a thought really dawned on me, in a big way. That thought:We've all seemed to have changed over these past few months. I'm not saying we all did, or that the changes were necessarily bad, but it just seemed different. Two of them, who used to be basically attached at the hip, can barely not get on each others nerves anymore. It's a bit daunting to me, considering I'm about to face one of the biggest changes to my life thus far AKA college. Could it really be this easy for people to become polar opposites? If so, will this happen with my best friend and I? I have to wonder: Are we changing for the better, or for the worse? It's not like I haven't changed over the past few months, but it hasn't seemed to cause much friction between friends as of late. These changes can come about in the reverse effect as well. Maybe arguing is caused due to the fact that some people just don't change, or can't seem to be more mature and act their age. Another form of these arguments comes due to the fact that many of my friends are different, and that means they more than likely don't get along. And when my friends insult my other friends, it causes me to become angry and resentful. But it's not exactly a one way street in this situation, because the hate is 110% mutual. I also feel like people just don't care about my life anymore. I can't remember the last time certain friends of mine asked about how I was doing or about my relationships (or lack thereof). That's very disheartening. That my own friends don't seem to care like they used to. But I guess that's all part of growing up and changing from the person you used to be, and into the person you are going to become.


Spencer