Oops I Did It Again??

Have you ever wondered how your actions might affect the other people around you? And whether you like it or not, it more than likely will. I really hadn't thought about this in a while until last night. I was told by this guy, who we'll call the out-of-towner, that I had, and I quote, "led him on and acted like I was interested then it was like a slap in the face when I claimed I wasn't." I automatically had to question myself, is this really what I did? I've been led on in the past and I would never want to do that to someone else. But in my loneliness had I inadvertently done just that? After asking a few people I got my answer, a pretty much resounding yes. It never was my intention, and I made that clear to him, but have I ruined things now? I have to learn that just because I'm lonely that doesn't mean I can play with people's emotions, intentional or not.